Hey Matt, sounds like a tough one. Family strife is never easy. Its important to try to be good to your family but assuming this just comes down to feelings and beliefs then following your own and being happy is more important. The best you can do (and your brother) is be happy, let them know you are happy and hope they value that. If not then there's nothing else you can or should do.
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King dude, that sounds like a lot to get done. Hope you can get it all sorted. I'm intrigued by the christmas treat.. did you bring enough to share with the class? Have a good trip and stay safe.
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