how should i say it to her?

On 21-Nov-2007 ieatwyverns said:

rofl, but then there's no point in asking her out if you've mauled her face up.

well, exactly. no worries.

Though strange and sadistic, it has a very sensible logic to it that method.

On 21-Nov-2007 SomeWhere said:

As i sit here and write this message to you folks, i am thinking why am i doing this? Because you are the only guys i can trust, because rumors are spreading so fast around my school! That is what i hate about big schools. Anyway, I have a real problem. I have a girl I like who's in like 8th or 9th grade or something(i am in 7th grade, 13 is a sweet age :P) and the first time i saw the girl I couldn't let go of her... So I need some advice how should i say it and start? To start with i was thinking of saying " I want to talk to you" then when i begin i will say"you are beautiful" or something alike... well... ideas? Discuss and well.... that's about it for me! Tell me how to do this please i am shy when i talk to girls and i've had the perfect moment to tell her like 5 times but thought nevermind i leave all of this to you!

"I want to talk to you" then when i begin i will say"you are beautiful" woo no, that's bad, never tell a girl she's beautiful unless ye are going out here is how i got one

1. ask if you can ask her something
2. tell her to ask her friends to go away as it is important!!! no friends no embarrassment from her friends if she rejects you. trust me i have had embarrassment like that b4
3. ask how she is and then say "a couple weeks ago you walked passed me and i thought you looked so pretty and i may have got a crush on you."

step 3 may or may not work. i tried it with my first crush and we got together so you should have her on a date sometime

also and very important: have a shower, don't go into school without smelling bad. girls hate bad smelling boys unless they are jocks.
also try to be confidant ok nervousness might or might not help you


if you try my way

Wait... when did people on forums become relationship advice experts?

i have had experience with his kind of problem

On 21-Nov-2007 SomeWhere said:

As i sit here and write this message to you folks, i am thinking why am i doing this? Because you are the only guys i can trust, because rumors are spreading so fast around my school! That is what i hate about big schools. Anyway, I have a real problem. I have a girl I like who's in like 8th or 9th grade or something(i am in 7th grade, 13 is a sweet age :P) and the first time i saw the girl I couldn't let go of her... So I need some advice how should i say it and start? To start with i was thinking of saying " I want to talk to you" then when i begin i will say"you are beautiful" or something alike... well... ideas? Discuss and well.... that's about it for me! Tell me how to do this please i am shy when i talk to girls and i've had the perfect moment to tell her like 5 times but thought nevermind i leave all of this to you!

Walk up to her and say:
"You, me, mate, NOW!"

So far everyone's posts here seem to be complete rubbish. There's no point asking for relationship advice on a video games forum, because 80% of the regulars here have no clue how to pull girls/women whatsoever. I wonder why people keep doing it actually.

My advice would be to try and "overhear" what sort of interests she has. If you realise you're both going to a gig or something, a pint or two should boost your confidence and perhaps enable you to talk to her without feeling very nervous. Normally going out for a drink is the best way to socialise, provided you don't get too drunk, because you'll never opull anyone that way, except the complete sluts and extremely despereate people. Maybe you'll meet someone else that you'll actually prefer instead that way. If you live in the US though, you're pretty much screwed because of all the ridiculously tight drinking laws over there.

I've always found that going to somewhere like a party or a local gig where you can drink and socialise is the best option. It has worked for me in the past.

If you are hopelessly wasted then you won't even pull sluts, since they'll be no life downstairs...

As long as you don't act like a ****** then things should just come just ask her questions because everyone likes to talk about themselves, continue making basic conversation and if she even bothers to talk to you then thats a good sign because the girls at my school are so stuck up and preppy its sickening to think this is all the choice I have.

Well anyway good luck dude!

On 21-Nov-2007 Ermac said:

If you are hopelessly wasted then you won't even pull sluts, since they'll be no life downstairs...

What? That's a lie!

On 21-Nov-2007 Cataclysm said:

What? That's a lie!

http://en.wikipedia.org/wik...function

"Excessive alcohol use has long been recognised as one cause of impotence, leading to the euphemism "brewer's droop," or "whiskey d**k;" Shakespeare made light of this phenomenon in Macbeth."

So it depends on how often you get hopelessly wasted.

EDIT: Word starred since someone's bound to moan.


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On 21-Nov-2007 StarDust shall live said:

"I want to talk to you" then when i begin i will say"you are beautiful" woo no, that's bad, never tell a girl she's beautiful unless ye are going out here is how i got one

1. ask if you can ask her something
2. tell her to ask her friends to go away as it is important!!! no friends no embarrassment from her friends if she rejects you. trust me i have had embarrassment like that b4
3. ask how she is and then say "a couple weeks ago you walked passed me and i thought you looked so pretty and i may have got a crush on you."

step 3 may or may not work. i tried it with my first crush and we got together so you should have her on a date sometime

also and very important: have a shower, don't go into school without smelling bad. girls hate bad smelling boys unless they are jocks.
also try to be confidant ok nervousness might or might not help you

Good luck

if you try my way

That sounds like it's more likely to make her think that he's a pervert, actually.

usually girls that i noe dont go for younger guys because they are much mature than guys their age so they tend to go for older guys srry.

Think about what you are doing.

You are asking gamers for advice on relationships. Thirteen-year-old gamers, no less, who you'll never meet and therefore have no sure way of trusting. When I read your first post, I felt truly sorry for you, because if you carry on like that you'll never get anywhere in life. If the only people you can trust are complete strangers, I strongly suggest that you turn off your computer, go outside and actually make some friends.

Sorry to put it so bluntly, but if you have to ask complete strangers for advice on how to get a girl, you do not deserve one. And I'm sure many people will agree with me on that one.

Well I actually though the drink theory was a very good method. It worked about... once for me. Failed only... ten times.

But at least I try, instead of moaning about it here.

On 22-Nov-2007 Divided By Zero said:

Think about what you are doing.

You are asking gamers for advice on relationships. Thirteen-year-old gamers, no less, who you'll never meet and therefore have no sure way of trusting. When I read your first post, I felt truly sorry for you, because if you carry on like that you'll never get anywhere in life. If the only people you can trust are complete strangers, I strongly suggest that you turn off your computer, go outside and actually make some friends.

Sorry to put it so bluntly, but if you have to ask complete strangers for advice on how to get a girl, you do not deserve one. And I'm sure many people will agree with me on that one.

I have a feeling that I know who you are, but nevertheless, you've put it well there. And yes, most members here are about thirteen, or at least they act like it.

On 21-Nov-2007 StarDust shall live said:

"I want to talk to you" then when i begin i will say"you are beautiful" woo no, that's bad, never tell a girl she's beautiful unless ye are going out here is how i got one

1. ask if you can ask her something
2. tell her to ask her friends to go away as it is important!!! no friends no embarrassment from her friends if she rejects you. trust me i have had embarrassment like that b4
3. ask how she is and then say "a couple weeks ago you walked passed me and i thought you looked so pretty and i may have got a crush on you."

step 3 may or may not work. i tried it with my first crush and we got together so you should have her on a date sometime

also and very important: have a shower, don't go into school without smelling bad. girls hate bad smelling boys unless they are jocks.
also try to be confidant ok nervousness might or might not help you

Good luck

if you try my way

thank you and nr 3 is perfect! I love it i might try it but since i am so damn shy i'm not sure if im gonna tell her i like her though. 2 i agree with u that point. Why does girls always have to go in groups?1 love it, simply

thanks for advice

What? Someone's taking relationship advice from SuperCheats?

Upload the scene onto Youtube... please.

On 21-Nov-2007 Catharsis said:

That sounds like it's more likely to make her think that he's a pervert, actually.

it worked for me

On 22-Nov-2007 SomeWhere said:

thank you and nr 3 is perfect! I love it i might try it but since i am so damn shy i'm not sure if im gonna tell her i like her though. 2 i agree with u that point. Why does girls always have to go in groups?1 love it, simply

thanks for advice

So you'll take what's quite possibly the worst advice on the thread? Hah, good luck, hahaha.