Okay this is how it works. Someone will post a situation with two answers, and the next poster must choose which they think is worse, then they have to put up a new scenario. Also, someone who posts a scenario can also answer their own questions to which they think is worse.
DO NOT DOWN ANY PERSON'S CHOICE. PEOPLE ARE NOT THE SAME, AND THEY THINK THAT THE CERTAIN SITUATION IS WORSE FOR A REASON! IT IS NOT YOUR PLACE TO CRITICIZE THEM! You can not make a situation that might lead to flaming or make others mad, If someone does so, I hope that the mods take care of it.
That said, let's play.
Which is worse?
Having your boyfriend/girlfriend tell you that he cheats on you.
or.
Having figured out that he cheats on you yourself?
Great, I'm moving. Who knows when you'll see me again.