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It's not ready then.
I've gone through...that.
Usually when it's ready there will be some fruit that has fallen to the ground. I'm not sure though.
Note this though, I'm just almost done my first year on the boy version.
All my experience comes from the girl version, but the girl version is like EXACTLY the same except you don't get that large very fertile feild and you well, marry a boy.
=D
And..well...I don't know about the year old thing. I guess it takes awhile to grow.
I hope I helped...somewhat.
^_^''