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Typically cheating on your boyfriend/girlfriend/partner is seen as one of the most unforgivable things you can do. But is it really that bad? Yes constant cheating when you absolutely meant it is bad, but I'm talking about accidental one night stands. Doing it doesn't mean you don't love your better half anymore. It's just a mistake. A stupid mistake that you'll never make again. So why does it end so many relationships that were doing fine?
Personally I don't see a problem with accidental cheating. If I was in a relationship with someone and he accidentally cheated, as long as he was sorry and still liked me I wouldn't be too fussed. What do you all think? Maybe it's a girl thing, or maybe I'm in the minority, I don't know.
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Accidental? Hmm. Maybe there is some sequence of events where it might be considered an accident. You'd have to be pretty drunk i guess. But generally you cant just make a simple mistake and cheat on someone .. there needs to be a degree of planning, or at least a whole series of mistakes that you consciously allow to continue.
If instead you mean a more open relationship where you are both ok with the other one having other partners, but then thats not so much cheating.
Everyone is different but I think in general someone who cheats on you and gets away with it will probably do it again.
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What is a one night Stand!??! And no puns this time srsly
ALso how did you even get into a relationship TO get cheated on? I find it hard to hold a normal conversation with people, let alone actually want to be with someone
A ONS is where you have sex with someone generally after a night out partying (but can be just a prearranged one time thing) and that?s basically it. Never have to see them again if they?re a random hook up. Or it could be a friends with benefits type deal that?s a once only.
But tl;dr - getting laid, with a rando once. Basically :S
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A few decades??? Virgin at 40? You'll be cheating/being cheated on sooner than you think. You need some ***** cats, minus the cats.
I worship this. Someone tell me for fcuk sake! I mean what do people expect me to do, walk up to guys and try my luck rolling a 50 sided dice & hope it lands on the one right number??? And if it lands on that one bad number, seriously bad consequences could await. The 'scene'? God no, they mostly look too young, too skinny, & too feminine for my liking. Online dating? Judging someone based on a profile sounds accurate!!!
If Moh struggles, can you bloody imagine what my struggles will be?
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Dan, Matt, please tell me how old you guys are, in all seriousness...
But aside from that, the easiest way to get a partner. Whether your gay, straight, bi, trans, or fluid.
Talkto people. Best tip ever; go to a book store every so often. Find someone you feel a spark toward. Strike up a convo as they're browsing.If it seems to go well.Off to purchase their book, in exchange for a coffee date.
I've seen it work countless times in my own store.
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"Forever in this heart of mine, an everlasting bond. From now until the end of time, are memories so fond."
Hehe you dont know whether I might be turning 17 or 16!!!
But seriously though I don't want to think about getting into a relationship until I get a stable job, hopefully the one I intend to go for. But seriously Matt I actually think you'd have a better chance than me. You make it out as you have a lack of self confidence but you'll come on here and tell us this stuff which makes you the opposite. Your quite open and honest and you also know how to joke without being offensive.
Lets put it this way. I would have little problem getting a girlfriend. I guess a relationship could be possible and realistic in that situation. But getting a boyfriend? Oh boy. The concept of me getting a boyfriend is just weird. Guys are my friends. I wouldn't know how to function in a relationship with one. The lines would get blurred between being great friends and actually being a relationship.
And lol the only reason I'm saying this stuff is that I like venting & get urges to vent to people about stuff.
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This is going to sound weird coming from me but i don't think you can force love. You kinda have to wait for it to happen. And then there'll be one person some day you click with.
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