okay this is what you have to do. for
cheering up, the flower is supposed to be pressed when the person is crying (head will be down and in their hands), the hug symbol is just that( when they look like they are reaching out for a hug), the smiley face is for when the look scared,(their hands are cupped and they are slouching a little bit). to
calm them down, the little doggie symbol needs to be pressed when they are about to hit you,(their arms are raised in a fighting stance), the hands symbol needs to be pressed when they throw up their hands(like if you are fed up with someone you throw your hands up), and the mouth open symbol is for when they put just one hand up( like they are saying, talk to the hand). you can usually figure out what symbol to push once you see their first movements. let me know if this helps, if so i will let you know about the other symbols. (i.e. romance, impress,etc.)also, all of them lighting u at once means nothing, just telling you it's time to select a choice.