HELP!?!!?

ok i have 3 things i need
1.do u get married? if u do when?
2.how long does it take to get a horse and what one can i get?
3.where the heck do u get the flute to train your dog?

1.No, sorry... you can't. You can in the nintendo version, but not in the PS2 vesion. Sorry.
2. How long? Depends on how much you work for Bob. Also, give him cakes after you get the kitchen added on to your house. He likes cake. Then, if you have a good enough relationship w/him, he'll bring the horse that likes you the most up to your house, and ask you if you want it. I would save after every day, and then if it isn't the horse you want, say no, and then don't save after that day, and see if he does bring up another horse the next day. If still isn't the horse you want, then repeat this process. I got the horse I wanted on the first day, so I don't know that if you say no, he'll bring another one later. He probably will, but I don't know.
3. You get the flute from Louis (the tool shop guy). Get up a good relationship w/him, and eventually, you'll find him by the fishing lake (or is it at your house? Maybe by the tool shop? I forget...) and he'll give it to you.

forget how ever you were told to get the horse you can't pick the one you want the fastest way to get a horse and you don't even have to work for it is to get your dog sick a couple of times and tell bob when he is sick and after a while you will have a horse

To get the horse you want, just become friends with Bob and give him lots of sweets. When you work for him part-time the first time, only brush THE HORSE YOU WANT. Then just quit working for him. Now just go on like usual. When he gives you the horse it will be the one that likes you most(the one you brush th most).