The mission where you steal the jet is called Verticle Bird once you complete that mission the Jet will then spawn at the abondoned airstrip. However if you don't want to wait till then you can read my post about getting the Jet before the Verticle Bird mission which is at http://forums.supercheats.com/topic.php?topic=798&
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