Well i know how to fill the living ghost thing.It just depends on how desperate to do it
1 you could ignore that aspiration thing and i would go away eventually
2 you could wait until Ana comes home then type in boolProp Testingcheatsenabled true, shift-click her,go to spawn,rodneys death creator.Then click Rodneys.There will be many ways to die.(If you die by satellite you can sell the satellite)once she dies, at night have the sim stand by Anas gravestone she will eventually haunt.Once that happens
shift-click the newspaper and choose paranormal reward(this will only work if you have the university expansion pack)and call the grim reaper to get Ana back
About th other thing your game might have something wrong with it
My ipod is awesome i listen to it it has green day panic! at the disco fall out boy simple plan and other kool stuff.