You know, I'm starting to love this forum. It shows me people who are definitely mature and who actually have ideas that make sense when it comes to topics like these.
On the subject of abortion, I'm pro-choice. It doesn't necessarily mean that I'm pro-abortion ? I don't really condone sex outside marriage myself ? but in the cases of those who see sex as a token of trust or entertainment, you still need to have some sort of safety net ready.
Regarding the argument that 'life begins at conception', I find this to be derived from religious or spiritual viewpoint, rather that an economical viewpoint. Some are even wily enough to suggest that each egg borne by the woman is a life ? which would essentially allow menstruation to be construed as murder, and menstruation is bound to happen at least once a month with varying regularity. Also, there is no way someone is going to tot up the number of eggs a woman has at any given time ? which varies ? and add that to population records. A foetus does not officially add to the population until it is born, named, and the birth certificate issued. So when I hear legislation such as the doubling of penalties for slaying a pregnant woman or hitting a pregnant pedestrian, I have to shake my head in disbelief, not just because of the aforementioned population policy but also because the merit of such penalties are also determined by whether that child was actually wanted in the first place.
Another problem with banning abortion or other forms of contraception lies, as has been stated in this thread, with rape or incest. I read an article today about a girl, now going to college, who had fallen pregnant thrice while being raped by her father. I think it wouldn't be fair to any woman in that position (although she eventually kept the third child) to be denied the right to live her life normally in spite of previous abuses. The same applies for someone who was dragged off the street and taken into a dark alley, or someone who (I don't condone this, but it happens) attends a party and falls drunk or passes out.
Most importantly, if a woman is forced to give birth, the chances of that baby growing up to be successful or at least decent are not very good, even if they are put up for adoption. An unwanted child is bound to feel the resent of his or her mother and is likely to turn to crime as an outlet for his stress and misgivings. A baby who is adopted not only tests poorly compared to students who were brought up by their biological parents but also is equally likely to turn to crime to convey his or her misgivings, which for one could be derived from physical differences from the people he or she has grown up with. (This part was taken from
Freakonomics by Steven Levitt and Stephen Dubner, but it's a point I can agree with.)